Early Life & Formative Years
Cyrus had been obsessed with martial arts since he was 4 or 5 years of age, though he believes the word “obsessed” doesn’t accurately capture the spiritual dimensions of his experience. His mom encouraged his love of martial arts, complementing it with her own infectious infatuation. He joined his first Taekwondo class at the age of 10 — his mom enrolled him into the class shortly after he’d been in a fight that left him with bruises.
Cyrus trained with Shandy Galloway, a 6 dan black belt who eventually became his lifelong instructor, someone whose wisdom and guidance he still relies on. Cyrus trained every day, even though beginners were only encouraged to train every other day. But a fire had been ignited within him, and it was impossible to keep him away from the lessons. He didn’t care what other beginners did — he wanted to train every day, and that’s precisely what he did for 3 years straight. Besides his official instructor, he also trained in boxing with his uncle, a pro who taught him to throw a punch.
Cyrus believes one of his formative experiences was as a black individual in a predominantly white and Hispanic neighborhood in Marshall, Michigan. He wasn’t yet 18 when his mom moved to the neighborhood. The neighborhood was a step up in strictly practical terms — it boasted a negligible crime rate, a significant improvement over his previous neighborhood. But it posed other challenges — being the only black family in the area led to a fair bit of ostracism and discomfort.
In one particularly glaring incident, Cyrus recalls waking up early one morning to his mom’s hysterical cries. An 8-feet tall wooden cross stood prominently in their front yard. His mother believed it had been planted by her ex. Cyrus believed it to have been two kids in his school who had been picking fights with him all year. He finds humor in the fact that the kids couldn’t get the cross to light on fire despite their attempts at using kerosene.
Cyrus believes martial arts helped him keep his composure and be the bigger person. As he’d soon find, martial arts would be his saving grace at multiple crossroads.